Be Curious Not Furious: I remember coming up with this phrase when my boys now 25 and 28 were small. They were typical boys that fought and screamed a lot and I was often at a loss as to what to do; whose side should I be on? You know when one screamed, “mommy JJ hit me and he called me a loser”. When is the appropriate time when they can deal with it on their own? I would ask myself over and over without knowing the answer. Not only were they often like pit bull pups on